Paperback: 150 pages
Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform; 1 edition (May 1, 2014)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1499103670
ISBN-13: 978-1499103670
Product Dimensions: 5.2 x 0.4 x 8 inches
Shipping Weight: 8.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars See all reviews (127 customer reviews)
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In writing this book Janet Lansbury has elevated the RIE philosophy to a whole new level. I read Magda Gerber's books when I had my first child, and I found them to promote distant childcare - at least from my perspective of a new parent entirely steeped in the Attachment Parenting (AP) philosophy (my review of the book talks at length about the differences between AP and RIE Your Self-Confident Baby: How to Encourage Your Child's Natural Abilities -- From the Very Start. I was also in love with Maria Montessori's writings advocating respect for the child, so I didn't feel Magda's books offered a novel idea....until AP failed me. I loved spending every second with my son, I carried him everywhere, co-slept, nursed him until he self-weaned at 3.5yo, kissed him every chance I had, obsessed over his diet and bowel movements...only to find out this was never enough. He wanted more and more and more of me, until my self-sacrifice took a toll on my health and emotions. Just as an example, leaving the house was a 1-hour ordeal that started with "mommy don't go," moved into guilt trips "mommy I cry angel tears for you when you leave," proceeded into demands for treats or toys, and culminated in a heart-wrenching scream-fest a block or so down the road for all neighbors to see (might I add, in the arms of his dad which he adored, and who quit his job to be a stay-at-home parent). We were all out of give.Having amassed an extensive library of parenting books, I revisited some of them in search for answers. Magda's book struck me differently then.
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