Paperback: 184 pages
Publisher: NMI Publisher; Updated edition (January 2, 2008)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0932767133
ISBN-13: 978-0932767134
Product Dimensions: 0.5 x 5 x 8.5 inches
Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars See all reviews (110 customer reviews)
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The absence of emotional illness does not actually mean emotional health just as the absence of disease does not actually mean the presence of health. Perhaps I am not the intended audience for this book which is why I didn't enjoy it. Given all the good reviews on , I'm glad that there are people who have benefited from the book.Having said that, here were some of the issues I had with the book:Newmark appears to be attempting to make amends for his own childrearing mistakes.Much of the actual good advice in the book seems to be geared toward emotionally unhealthy/abusive adults who are raising children.If you have common sense and are reflective, then this book may be too elementary for you.What really bothered me about the book was the anecdotes Newmark uses -- they don't sound real. For example on page 30-31, Newmark talks about a family meeting in which 11 year old Robert tells his mother that she is "being 'miscellaneoused' to death." I highly doubt that those words actually came from a real 11 year old boy. In another anecdote on page 55, a mother is impatiently trying to change the diaper of her 4-month-old. Her father says nothing but decides to call her on the phone later on and "tactfully" critiqued her and made a suggestion on how to handle the baby so that there was less fussing. Supposedly the very next day, mom calls her dad to thank him for his advice. First of all, most people don't take criticism very well no matter how tactful it is; so I have a hard time believing someone so insensitive to their baby today would be calling her father to thank him the very next day.
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